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Having wrapped up the overseas “We Are Glamily” tour, Adam and Glamily are back in LA for some well-deserved rest. Later this month, Adam will be in Miami Beach to headline their Gay Pride event. It seems to be the first of his “a-concert-a-month” series while he works on new music. Above we see Adam enjoying his downtime lunching with Sutan. Photo from Just Jared.
Enjoy the chat!

 

2,439 Responses to April 2013 Chat

  1. eywflyer says:

    Tabs are back but a lot of the links under those tabs are currently missing. WordPress suddenly is hitting me with a limit on the number of menu items. Looks like something I’ll have to resolve with my hosting company. Don’t worry all of the old posts are still around I just can’t add them to the drop-down menu right now. Will fix this as soon as possible.

  2. riskylady says:

    OMG, well, this just broke my heart a little more – the song by the group Adam tweeted: “It Was Worth It”
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPvyXCN6eks&feature=youtu.be

  3. cwm says:

    Thanks eywflyer for fixing the links to the tabs! Yay!

    Welcome back from your odyssey adventures, riskylady! Good to hear from you again. I always appreciate what you have to say.

    Given that Adam just started following Anderson Cooper on Twitter today, many in my twitter feed are now shipping Adam with Anderson. Undeterred by the fact that Anderson is dating somebody already. LOL

    LadyNorth – I’m sorry to hear that you’re seeing divisiveness among the Finnish fans. I guess that is to be expected, given the fact that Sauli is Bertlandia’s “son” and Adam your “son-in-law.” Feelings are bound to be strong, but hopefully it will blow over eventually. I saw a reference from illuxia on twitter that “one trashy rag =/= Finnish media,” so I guess at least one rag has gone negative. Sad.

    Actually, it’s the Finnish fans and the teen fans that I suspect might take this the hardest. The Finnish fans for obvious reasons, and the teen fans because they don’t have the wisdom and experience that comes with age to put Adam’s and Sauli’s beautiful fairy-tale love story into a broader perspective about life’s journeys. I mean look at us, and we’re all 29! Just imagine the emotional impact on inexperienced teens who idealized Adam’s and Sauli’s romance.

    I wonder if and at what point Adam and/or Sauli will say more, and whether that will help soothe some nerves.

  4. luval says:
  5. LadyNorth says:

    Hi riskylady so nice to see you here Heart !

    I just saw/listened to it too and it made me feel so sad Frown Also Sauli has tweeted a sad song earlier, someone tweeted parts of it. I think this is sad to both of them too. They will survive but this is not easy for them Frown

  6. milwlovesadam says:

    I love that Mils always seems to be able to sum things up with a more practical approach and remind us that THE SUN WILL COME OUT TOMORROW!

    Thanks retjenny!!

    So I ran a ton of errands today after posting, and for some reason I heard a lot of Queen on several stations, Pink, Fun., Stay, and Bruno. No P2, no rap, no hip-hop. Just “good” music. Very very nice. I was reminded of Adam with all of them.

    Of course, my heart still wanted to hear Adam, but hoping for Phase 3 for that.

    Love the glasses non-troversy. Like I posted, they had no lenses!!!

    So, Adam has been seen a lot with Johnny. And according to other sites, the Adommy crays are out in full force. I’m so glad I am not on twitter.

    Remember back when we all thought his “liberation day” tweet meant that they had already broken up? Remember when he didn’t have much to say about Valentine’s Day this year? Hmmmm. Methinks this has been a long time coming.

    They will be Okay.

    And. There will be rumors, speculation, innuendos, TMZ, press, blogs, every time he’s seen with a man now. Much media. Might be a win-win scenario.

    Lulz. Maybe they’ll have promos to “win a date with Adam.”

    (( Proof of penis purchase required. ) ROTFL

  7. luval says:

    Following Anderson Cooper. Yay! I believe and I’ll say this now that Adam will guest on his show Anderson Cooper 360. I have tweeted Anderson in the past asking if he’d have Adam as a guest.

  8. milwlovesadam says:

    Adam following AC may have something to do with the GLAAD awards. AC just won one of the other major ones, and it was presented to him by Madonna wearing a Boy Scouts uniform. Much media coverage.

  9. milwlovesadam says:

    Adam on AC???? Please make it happen Universe. Make it so.

  10. luval says:

    Adam the next “Bachelor”?

  11. LadyNorth says:

    cwm, I don’t know if it’s Finnish fans or some others, not anyone on my feed but I can see things on other peeps’ tweets (when they make comments). There is one trash mag with nasty stuff (made up not true I think), based on it some peeps have tweeted something to A, and some others blame Finnish fans or Finland for hating Adam. Google translate doesn’t do good… I hate this kind of things and they are not what boys need now. Most of the Finns are shocked but love both of them dearly. Adam’s popularity is not based on Sauli, he sold gold already before. Peeps are upset for hate accusations.

    But what you say about younger fans is probably true. Young mind is often black and white…

    ITA: I don’t know exactly what’s all that mess and I think I don’t even want to Frown Would like to search for positive news but can’t help seeing everything and how upset people are for false accusations. I have to take a day off totally. Good night, nice place and nice people <3

  12. milwlovesadam says:

    Adam was , is, and will be:

    F-I-N-E Fine Fine Fine.

    He is out and about, he is smiling and sunny and beautiful and working.

    FINE

    Team # I’m Not Worried.

  13. milwlovesadam says:

    Lulz. I’m way more worried about the crapfest that is Idol this year and Smash’s apparent soon to be demise and move to Saturday nights.

    And Korea.

    Let’s keep focused people.

  14. eywflyer says:

    Ok the “Pre-Idol”, “AI”, “Chat Threads” and “Features” tabs have been fixed. The “Trespassing” and “Glam Nation” tabs do not contain any links at the moment, just the categories. There is a long-standing WordPress problem with complex menus where the number of items will sometimes be limited. Trying to find a workaround but it will take some time.

    Check out the AI link, I changed this one to cut down on the number of menu items and make it easier to view.

    As for my “stepping away”, please know that I will certainly continue to keep the site running and working behind the scenes (on things like today’s menu problem). I just feel that I need a break from Adam stuff in general for a period of time. Please also know that is NOT any kind of negative reflection on anyone at this site. I am very happy with the direction in which our site community has evolved.

    In the meantime, I am very appreciative of AL who will be running the April 14th concert thread, and may be posting the May chat thread as well.

  15. AL says:

    nitenursestat video!

    luval, that’s the “soulmate” video. Is this the nitenursestat video?
    http://youtu.be/cI73zPH9wyo

    As for the “Bachelor”. Struggle Razz Pain I remember a “Gay Bachelor” show some time ago where they actually had straight and gay guys participating without telling the contestant at first. No

  16. rs says:

    I wonder if and at what point Adam and/or Sauli will say more, and whether that will help soothe some nerves.

    I have a feeling that they won’t say anything more than they have already said, that it ran its course and that they are still friends. While Adam raved about being in love and we saw wonderful photos of the two of them, the details of their relationship itself was kept private, which is how it should be. They respect each other and what they had together too much to go spilling the beans about who wanted out first or who has a “roving eye”. It would do Adam’s career no good, and Sauli was tight-lipped from the beginning. That was one of the things that we loved about him.

    Rather than verbal explanations, Adam shares his emotions with us through music, through what he tweets that he is listening to now, and through what he will write in the future. It will go directly from his heart to ours.

    And a quick wave to cgesq. Glad you jumped in. Your comment basically says it all:

    Its always difficult to be watching from the sidelines when people we care about go through a hard time. We naturally want to make it all better, but we don’t have that ability

  17. riskylady says:

    Hi,LadyNorth, nice to see you too! Sorry you’re having to deal with this on top of your own recent issue! Wish we had some of your “apple stew” as you called it to soothe our troubled souls (with lots of ice cream).
    I listened to the song Sauli tweeted too, also sad. Boys are feelin’ it – don’t you think it’s the few days after, when reality sets in, that get you?

  18. luval says:

    AL….oops! Thanks for the fix. Always wonder when I’d screw up a youtube posting.

    Now I religiously watch The Bachelor and The Bachelorette and after the last season of The Bachelor there was discussion on some news sites about “why hasn’t there been a person of color or why hasn’t there been a gay or lesbian?” It will never happen…I don’t think…at least the gay or lesbian show.

  19. rs says:

    AL and luval, thanks for that nitenursestat video. I loved it, and its message is so true. Yes

  20. AL says:

    It will never happen…I don’t think…at least the gay or lesbian show.

    It already did but with the male contestants being straight and gay (which was unfair to the gay bachelor).
    From what I can find, “Boy Meets Boy” ran on Bravo back in 2003. No major network show though.

  21. LadyNorth says:

    risky, I’ll email you later, I have been whining here enough… But to bed now, it’s 2 am.

    But I found something interesting Smile About people Adam just followed. Let it be rock ish!

    Little @Arachnidkid
    He’s following lots of rock ish people. I’m just gonna sit here like a good girl and not say anything *whistles innocently*

  22. milwlovesadam says:

    Bravo or Logo has 5 Gays One Girl, which is more of a talk/comedy show, I’ve only seen it a couple of times, but there have been Adam mentions, I think in the category of “who would you do?”

  23. luval says:

    Am supposed to go to a NCAA watching party tonight. My team doesn’t even come on until 9:30pm-ish. I’m gonna feign illness. Have no desire to watch this thing. Maybe the food/snacks are the only reasons to go. Yes, I want all those calories & salt! Smile

    That Boy Meets Boy show rings a bell, Al. I do believe I may have watched an episode.

  24. mmm222 says:

    Work was kicking mah butt last week, as cwm would say, so I didn’t read about the Adam/Sauli breakup until this morning. I really was surprised because they seemed so happy together last month in Finland. They seemed so well suited for each other, but as many of you have stated, there were some real challenges to this relationship.

    It’s always difficult when a relationship splits up. But if things aren’t going well, it can also be a relief to call it quits and move on. Each relationship that doesn’t work out teaches us something about who we are and what we should look for in the next relationship. So the lessons, although painful, help us grow and become better people and partners in the end.

    Adam has a very strong support system. He’s out and about and looks very happy. I agree with mils, he’ll do just fine.

  25. milwlovesadam says:

    Nicely said mmm.

  26. jlurksacto says:

    Q3 on Atop said “Sauli central” would be kept current and the
    Finnish translators said they would continue posting.

  27. milwlovesadam says:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=MPvyXCN6eks

    It was worth it. Very good emotional break-up song. No wonder he tweeted it.

  28. cwm says:

    Thanks for posting that song, riskylady and mils. Beautiful, emotional, poignant. Perfect for the occasion.

  29. cwm says:

    And now, just to soothe our souls, here’s a box of chocolates I’d like to share with you all.

    BRB, getting the red wine.

    https://twitter.com/FascinatingPix/status/320680882249793536/photo/1

    teehee Wink

  30. adamland says:

    jlurksacto I received the DVD, it was mistakenly put in my landlords mailbox and they were out of town for over a week. Thank you so much!!!

  31. milwlovesadam says:

    Cute little hedgehog!!

    Thanks, but I’ll stick to my bowl of hot and sour soup. Yumm-o!

  32. milwlovesadam says:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpage&v=uHC3OyiN1uQ

    Watching this. So haunting emotional and simply lovely.

  33. cwm says:

    Thanks for that Stay/Underneath vid, mils. Listened to it and about 4 other Stay/Underneath vids from different shows. Incredibly beautiful. So pure and haunting. Gut wrenching in the emotions conveyed, especially in light of current events.

  34. jlurksacto says:

    LOL:
    https://twitter.com/mondokoosh/status/320630029379854337/photo/1

    Glad deliveries are being made, even with glitches.

  35. Teri63 says:

    Hi, all. I haven’t posted for a long time due to a house fire that has relocated my family during reconstruction for the past 5 months and an ill mom (who, thankfully, is currently doing much better and finally seems to be on-the-mend). I’ve managed to lurk from time-to-time, though, and really am not that surprised by Adam’s break-up–but not because I saw it coming or anything specific like that. Rather, both he and Sauli are very dedicated to becoming celebrity figures, and it’s so, so rare for individuals with that kind of focus and craving for fame to domesticate, let alone when both parties of a couple are fueled by that drive. On paper, they have so much in common they should be perfect, right? In reality, they may be so parallel that they find that their paths rarely intersect. Such is the making of great friends, similar to Adam and Sam Sparrow (or any other of the highly motivated and artistic friends Adam collects), but for some couples, it’s necessary for one of the involved parties to have the relationship as their primary focus. We don’t know them and, therefore, don’t know the actual facts, but I’m just conjecturing on what little we have seen via pics, tweets, and various other media over the past couple years of their relationship. I have no doubt they love each other, but it just doesn’t shock me that they couldn’t make it stick when both of them want something else that is so all-consuming so very much.

  36. turquoisewaters says:

    Good to see you back Teri63. Sorry for all you have been through. I think you make a very good point. It is hard to find a balance. If two people are equally ambitious, they find no time for each other. If one steps back to support the other’s career, that party often loses the (self)respect and the financial independence. I’d be the first to admit that I struggled with this all my life.

  37. Teri63 says:

    Thank you, turquoisewaters. It’s good to be back! Throughout it all, though, it’s been awesome to check in here to see familiar names and chuckle/drool/admire/angst with you all during the awesome international tour.

  38. Kradamour says:

    Wow. I go to Maine for a week without internet access and all hell breaks loose!
    I received an email (merci, Adamized!) and a link to the interview (merci, cwm!) that I read on my phone…haven’t had much oppy to process yet or any time to read comments here, just got home – looking forward to reading what this group of thoughtful and life-experienced 29 year olds have to say about the breakup.
    Good night for now!
    Sleepy

  39. JOJOSIE says:

    For those like me who are interested in following Sauli’s career now, Idol Forums has a new thread named Sunny Sauli. It’s under the main Adam Lambert thread. They closed the S.S.Sauli thread with 999(strange amt) post and started a new thread that that will be all Sauli and not a shipping one with Adam. I like to visit there ocassionaly as they have several Finnish fans that post there and it’s interesting to get their views. There is also a new twitter acct. called Destination Sauli, so if your on twitter you might want to check it out. I was also glad to hear the Atop would continue posting his blog. I also am one like TLKC who still follows Adams ex loves and ex friends on twitter. You know, Brad and Monte. I also still have Drake too but he doesn’t tweet much these days and I never considered him a real love. Love Adam and hope the best for him but I also have a crush on Sauli and plan on staying connected.

  40. Calgary says:

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  41. cwm says:

    Hi Teri63! Great to see you here! Thanks for sharing your very helpful perspective. Makes a lot of sense.

    I’m sure sorry to hear about all of your troubles over the past several months. I sure hope all settles down back to normal very soon.

  42. rs says:

    I woke up this morning thinking that the best time in the relationship of these two self professed home-bodies was the year and a half that Adam was home making Trespassing. After that he was away too much promoting the album and performing while Sauli was left home alone too much, at the same time trying to get his own career on track. They just couldn’t jive both the needs of their careers and the needs of their relationship.

    OK. Nuff said. No more analyses. They are big boys, smart, gorgeous, and can take care of themselves, with a little help from their friends. They will be fine. I love them both, (Of course , I love Adam more Big Smile )….and can’t wait to see what fabulous things the future holds for them both.

    ETA. That “No more analyses” comment was meant for myself only. The rest of you can analyze to your heart’s content.

  43. turquoisewaters says:

    Kradamour says:

    looking forward to reading what this group of thoughtful and life-experienced 29 year olds have to say

    I hope we meet your high expectations. Welcome back.
    I’ve missed you.

  44. LadyNorth says:

    Adam in Rasputin, looking good! I am relieved that I see only his pretty face, not glasses without glasses, lol. They were funny but I wasn’t thrilled Wink

    http://instagram.com/p/Xy9tenEIJd/#

    http://instagram.com/p/XzEvQ9EIN6/#

    My feed has calmed down, there’s still a sorrow process going on but also life goes on. So things are ok. There’s always been some trolls and crays and I hope the press finds new subjects to write. Amen. Off to RL.

  45. luval says:

    Good morning!…Nice pictures of Adam. I wondered if he was out last night. It was a Saturday night after all!…hmm Rasputin…that’s where all the beautiful hollywood people hang out. Wish I had a stake in that place! Adam I am sure was doing his networking!

    I see Adam started following a group called Imagine Dragons. Hate their song & vibe (heard it on the radio this morning), but the words to this song “It’s Time” are quite telling….I’m never changing who I am.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r0idI4WiGSg

  46. luval says:

    Chaz had a birthday: Love Cher’s pants Wink

    https://twitter.com/cher/status/320839911634792448/photo/1

  47. dcglam says:

    You are so funny, luval. I happen to LOVE that song by the Imagine Dragons as well as the message within. It must be one of those polarizing songs!
    Thank you for bringing it here this morning. Yes, very fitting….. Wink

  48. milwlovesadam says:

    Cher’s pants are gorgeous.

    Chaz looks so good too. More masculine and trimmer. It looks like he has lost a lot of weight.

    Teri63, I am glad to see you back, but sorry about your troubles. Hope all is better soon. I have good friends who had a house fire several years ago, and basically had to do a total re-build. But, they are “fine” now. We helped them as much as we could. Best wishes to you.

  49. TexasWannaHoldEm says:

    Haha, I love that song too! It has a bit of an 80’s sound (to me, which I love) and just a hint of the instrumentation that is so popular on radio right now. I would never want Adam to go all Mumford & Son on us, but just a hint might help him with radio next time around!

    Good morning dcglam! So nice to “see” you this morning! Blowing Kisses

  50. milwlovesadam says:

    Oooh. Just love that Imagine Dragons song, I hear it a lot on the radio driving to work. Very uplifting.

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