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aww, this is a nice sweet article about the split.
http://www.4music.com/news/news/8652/Adam-Lambert-splits-from-long-term-partner
Well, I am NEVER dissapointed by the lively and thoughtful posts on our blog. Our common love for Adam keeps shining through no matter what. He has looked so smushy and happy lately that I can’t help but think whatever the end was for he and Sauli it was more of the protracted and progmatic kind versus the crippling kick in the stomach version.
Ron your version seems well reasoned. I have to say that I love Adam in love and will miss seeing him feeling so cherished. He knows he is loved by 1000s of us but that’s not the same.
Seems like this had been a hard week for a lot of us and especially for those suffering a loss of a loved one. Loosing a pet is so hard especially if it is unexpected.
Ok, got to shake myself off and head out for a day in the sunshine. My old dog is waiting patiently for her walk. Can’t let the old girl down.
I hope too that no one gets hurt here or disappears anywhere. Conversation here is gentle compared to many other places. It’s ok to be sad and it’s ok not to be sad. And those who are very sad may need each other. I needed most his music last night, that’s my best way of coping with emotions, right kind of music.
I’m looking forward new music. And one off shows with old/current music. And my memories of Helsinki show won’t go a way
And most of all I need to get my own life back on track again, so if I’m away from here I probably have some projects going on. Got an invitation to birthday party tonight, it might do me good. It’s 30th birthday party, it must be scary to turn from 29 to 30…
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Just jumped in my car and what do I hear but Whataya Want From Me! It’s a sign…. Of what I have no idea.
I love the word smushy, Adamized. I am here at my diner and they have no forks or spoons available. So I will be eating with my knife. I think their dishwasher broke so they are hand washing everything.
After first learning last night about Adam & Sauli’s breakup elsewhere while searching out some info on Miami Gay Pride, I of course came here. Many of you are so skillful and capable in your writing about your feelings and emotions, many of which are the feelings and emotions of those of us not writing. You have tried to make sense of what has occurred, how you feel about it and how it might affect our Adam and us. All the opinions and explanations are feasible and possible but everyone here can have a different “take” on this whole sad situation. No one opinion is absolutely right and no one is wrong. We weren’t privy to what went on behind the scenes in their private lives. Adam hasn’t shared and probably won’t ever share this with us. It is wonderful that so many of you are so able to express so well all the possible scenarios of what might have happened and the emotions one might have upon learning of this. But it’s personal for Adam and Sauli and it’s personal for each one of us. Each one of us feels this in his own way and no one opinion is the “right” one. I am sad because I feel Adam needs someone to love in his life and to be loved back. He wants an in depth relationship. And, like many, I fear the possible one night stands and the repercussions from the media and the effect on the public’s opinion of him. He will be trying to win America in Album #3 and that kind of negative publicity will hinder this. I also don’t understand the “stepping away” concept and believe that this is the wonderful safe place it has always been and we need each other more now. Love you all! Don’t go away!!
Thanks for saying what I meant a bit more nicely than I did. I doubt it was easy for Adam to have to discuss the break-up publically after making so much of the relationship over the last two years.
It isn’t easy for those of us who loved the idea of him as part of a happy couple to discuss it either. Most of us need to speculate a bit about the reasons in order to deal with it and get over our sadness. If people need to step back, so be it but I need to come here even more right now.
It helped yesterday to know that turquoisewaters felt the same way as I did. cwm’s, luval’s and ron’s words mean a lot this morning. Thanks for the positivity and the honesty.
Good morning ALL! I popped in late last night for updates, as I usually do. Heard the news about Adam and Sauli yesterday afternoon from our dear friend nkd. I’m really proud of both of them for handling this change with such respect and maturity. My sister is in the midst of a divorce from a psycho – to say he’s disrespectful or immature would be putting it VERY mildly. Anyway, although it’s sad and I loved the positive influences in Adam’s life that I attributed to Sauli, this is just another chapter in Adam’s “story” that we’ve all been glued to for the past three years. I expect that in the near future we’ll get gorgeous, mesmerizing pictures of Adam in the studio, along with the occasional picture of him having a little too much fun in the club, lol. Either way, it’s part of his process and his upcoming album should be brimming with inspiration. I wish him love and happiness, as does everyone else here.
Also want to send healing thoughts to those who shared their personal losses here yesterday/last night… So very sorry for the pain, whether it be for a beloved pet or a cherished family member. I’ve suffered immeasurable loss in my life, but today, I feel like the luckiest mom in the world. My son was pitching in a h.s. varsity baseball game last night. The batter hit a line drive directly at my son’s head… by some miracle, he got his glove up. The force of the ball knocked his entire glove off his hand. One of his teammates on the j.v. team wasn’t so lucky earlier last night – he was hit in the face with the ball and had to be careflighted to the hospital. He has swelling and bleeding in his brain – please remember this boy in your thoughts and prayers today.
However, we have another game today in 3-1/2 hours. So I’m going to adopt luval’s philosophy: I’m making my son his favorite breakfast this morning of sausage, biscuits and gravy, and eggs – “Grease Therapy”, lol! Let’s all be happy and supportive of each other, friends. There’s so much love and friendship here, I hope to see all of you back here posting and sharing. I’m so tempted to do something really corny right now, like post a link to Adam’s “Stay”, but I’ll refrain, lol. Have a great day, friends!
little duchess
I’ll be here. Let’s keep the home fires buring while everyone adjusts to the new and single Adam. Yes, we will worry about some OTT pics and pics taken out of context etc. but Adam is a smart guy and I believe that he will learn very quickly from any mistakes he makes.
Awwwwwwww, Texas! I will add your son’s safety to my prayers. Baseball appears to be a safe, gentlemanly sport but it can be as dangerous as the rest of them. Enjoy watching him wolf down that breakfast.
Thanks, TLKC! My other son played 7 years of football, so I’m kind of used to the fear of injury (and he had alot of them!). My son’s breakfast looks alot better than my Nutrigrain bar.
http://shar.es/dIxOj
Looks like last night
More pics from last night. He looks so cute in glasses and matching shoes!
http://adam-pictures.com/displayimage.php?album=856&pid=29675#top_display_media
Hi guys. I’m very late to the party, have been away in real life and just read about the break up a few minutes ago.
I have nothing new to add.
cwm, Ron and Luval, you seem to have summed it up very well.
What is going on here with hurt feelings and “stepping away?” It ain’t that deep folks. IMHO. We have a very friendly and warm place here, filled with humor and mature perspectives, no cray tolerated. I thought that was what we all liked about our site.
Please Stay. Eywflyer, you are so appreciated, I don’t even have words.
Adam is a grown man. Sauli is also grown. They are both mature, capable and well-connected people. They will likely stay friends on some level, Adam seems to gather people into his circle for the long-run. They will be fine.
We will see Adam out at clubs, that’s what he does/did, with or without Sauli. We will have more pics of him that way too. # Win-Win.
On another note, this break-up news once again puts him in the news. PR is PR guys. Sad but true.
Did he sing Stay for Sauli? I don’t care. He just sang the snot out of a beautiful song, that’s all I care about.
Broken English???? Jeebus. I live it every single moment of my day with my husband. It is sooooooo hard sometimes. Even after the number of years we have been married.
If we get any more songs like Take Back on #3 I will be one happy fan. Very very happy. I just love that damn song!
Ladynorth, Adam’s music has helped me through some trying moments in my life too. Change, Soaked, One, Tracks, If I Can’t Have You, and to be honest, the whole Trespassing CD was like a journey of emotions. Just love it to death. Hope you feel better soon sweetie.
And, to everyone here: STAY.
( Guess I just made a list. HA! I said I had nothing to add. Color me ” can’t stop posting.” )
WTF? Those glasses don’t have lenses!! LOL
The hair does look great though. And I do love me some creepers.
BTW. That pic a couple of pages back of the doll collection has me creeped out.
‘Cuz I can tell you all which moment each and every one is based on.
Best part of the article above. Very sweet.
Hi again everyone! I LOVE those glasses on Adam. Maybe it’s because I wear that style (except without the blue sides & with lenses.LOL!!!!). Great posts here this morning. Onward & outward I say!
mils, I never looked at that doll collection. Will go back & take a peek to see if I get creeped out.
btw…his hair really does look two-toned now. Ginger tips, dark brown, ginger sides & back (still yuk). But I don’t mind it so much. Looks cute!
Here’s a pic with “Sarah Stalker”
http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=10151404503109091&l=9df99f4d18
And his $9.99 glasses.
http://kwanzajones.storenvy.com/products/551778-kwanza-jones-sunglasses
hah mils you aren’t alone in knowing the source of each and every doll. nkd could probably tell us the source of each piece of clothing.(:
Lovely words mils. A healthy breath of fresh air has been let into the room. AND it is far too easy to place the outfits on those dolls. Yikes.
The best part of that article is Adam’s comment about his fans. The worst part is that he spoke on video with TMZ. Does anyone expect anything but sarcasm from Harvey and Co.? At least they consider him newsworthy.
These new pics are very cute, best on-the-street photo’s since he got home. Love those blue suede shoes. Glasses are silly but Adam puts the cool in everything, even silly.
Maybe we should all buy a pair for San Diego.
One of my many guilty pleasures. TMZ on tv at 4pm EDT mon-fri.
I’d be up for that.
Thanks for all your well wishes guys you all are so caring, still really sad, I cant believe it, I never thought I would take my losing my little guy like this, I decided to wash floors ( well some of them) to take my mind off for a little while.
Anyhow I read a lot on here, and for Eyeflyer, I would like to make a suggestion, maybe to give us something to focus on, you may or may not even what to hear about it, but as I read down the comments, I say to myself, YES, I so agree, but hate to clutter up the page with I so agree. Now this might not be what you can do, but can we have a drop down box, being able to click on I agree, or I like or something like that, now I disagree might hurt feelings, but maybe some other phrasing? I dont know just a suggestion.
You and I will need rose-coloured glasses, turquoisewaters but the blue ones will suit your name a lot better.
Really interesting…Adam talking soul mates, 2010
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PLjY3wPG1gI&feature=youtu.be
aely, Thanks for finding that! It is certainly telling and portends to what has just happened. WOW!
aely ditto…thanks for that! I always believed in more than one soul mate too. He is such a thoughtful and wise young guy!
Yes, thank you aely, for sharing that video. Wow, that really does put current events in perspective, doesn’t it?
Adam and Sauli may have decided that their relationship had served its purpose in their lives – that they had learned from each other what they had needed to learn and grown in ways that they needed to grow, and that for each of them it was time for their next phase of life. Which, if true, makes total sense in the context of what Adam said in 2010 about soulmates, what he said in yesterday’s interview about the break-up, and how they both have seemed to be looking pretty happy over the past few months while the relationship has been fading. It also means that they can still love each other as friends, honoring and appreciating what the other meant to them in their life journey. I like that. Ok, that’s my story and I’m sticking to it!
I appreciate what everyone has said this morning. You are all wonderful people and I’m grateful that we have found each other here.
The joke’s on us!
Hi All, Just wanted to pop in on this day of reflection and share my feelings of sadness over the break up. Its always difficult to be watching from the sidelines when people we care about go through a hard time. We naturally want to make it all better, but we don’t have that ability.
I wish both of them the best.
Adam’s so funny. In the midst of all of the emotions in his fandom, he tweets about people’s reaction to his blue glasses. He makes me laugh and I love that about him.
I had a poignant and rather sad moment last night when I realized that I had these two tabs open right next to each other. Feeling it all over again this morning. Something about these two pictures is really bringing out the emotions for me. Two such beautiful men. I wish them both the very best.
https://twitter.com/Christyushka_/status/320270316003794944/photo/1
https://twitter.com/GlamLovatic29/status/320328999660294144/photo/1
I want to keep open tabs on both of them, too. Here’s hoping LadyNorth will help out with translations on Sauli’s blogs and at least the first episode of his new show. Atop is doing it at the moment but who knows?
It’s easy following Brad and watching “Husbands” – all in English. Learning Finnish is not on my bucket list. I want to know what the little mite is up to.
cgesq
Nice to hear from you!
LadyNorth – I too would still love to keep tabs on what Sauli is up to. Since we don’t know what Atop, or Miachichu and Tiquu (the “official” translators), or the tweeters that kept Adam fans posted on Finnish media about Adam and Sauli, will continue to do, it’s great to know that we have you here to keep us informed about significant happenings for Sauli. I’m definitely interested in how things unfold for him. Thanks.
Although it seems a bit irrational, but it also seems very real that I too am here today with an achy breaky heart. It really does help knowing that all of you are experiencing these same emotions. I love that Mils always seems to be able to sum things up with a more practical approach and remind us that THE SUN WILL COME OUT TOMORROW! Thanks everyone, you might be helping someone that you don’t even know is reads this blog. Eywflyer, please know that what you provide for all is nothing but good, helpful and appreciated.
Last night I decided to step away after reading about the break up. Not because I was emotional about it but rather I saw the range of emotions here and that affected me. I wanted to compose something wise and soothing so I slept on it.
And what did I find today – cwm said everything that I was going to say!
What I will add is a little distraction during this time: the new weekly crossword that features our second favorite thing after Adam’s music – his “Hair“!
http://www.adamlambertlive.org/2013/als-crosswords
I am thankful for this blog because it provides a focus for what has been a challenging year for me. I respect everyone’s decision on how they need to deal with any Adam-related news. As for me, I am committed (or should be?
) to staying around, keeping on eye on ALL here and providing new crosswords each week.
After all, I did drop “Lurker” from my username for a reason!
Wuv you AL. You know I am all about the hair!
Awww, AL, you know I love you! You are such a gift to this blog!!
LOL I think we all wonder from time to time if we should be committed!!
I wish for you a better year ahead.
I also wanted to give a shout out to folks we haven’t seen in a little while, like Texas, cgesq, little dutchess, and retjenny. It’s great to see you all pop in.
Speaking of the blog, what happened to the tabs across the top? I only see “Trespassing” and “Glam Nation.” There used to be a bunch more tabs, like “Pre-Idol” and “Top 16.” Did those go away on purpose or by accident, or are they just hidden from my view? Thanks.
Soothing my nerves here again – that tells what’s going on elsewhere… I think I have to avoid Twitter and some Finnish sites for a while, I just can’t handle that amount of distracting emotions right now. And some shit coming to surface. I hate to hear peeps taking “sides” on this break up or tweeting shit to A or S. I don’t want a permanently split fandom. I needed many “Stays” again
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Watching Adam performing Stay in different cities I remembered an interview in True Hollywood story. It was an interview of Adam’s teenage vocal teacher and she told that once Adam came to the lesson and asked “can I sing my emotions out?”. She told that was the moment when she knew he was going to be a star. I just love that part of the story
He certainly sang some feelings out in Stay.
cwm and TLKC, of course you can ask me if there’s some news bits in Finnish that are not translated. I haven’t been in Atopia (I know though there’s Sauli central) and don’t know at all those fans who translate Sauli’s things, so I don’t know what are their plans. But there are a lot of foreign fans of Sauli, my guess is there will be translations somewhere when this situation settles down.
To cheer everyone up, watch this Muppets singing Bohemian Rhapsody
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IlxozJh2JNo&list=RD021bJxYRtGUM4
I am missing those tabs too, cwm.
Thanks for the shoutout cwm It’s a trying time for everyone no matter what your position is on this event. You very aptly and beautifully summarized how that Adam interview about soulmates from 2010 so fits into the current situation with Adam and Sauli and, I agree, the reasoning feels comfortable and does seem to make it easier to live with. Sometimes in order to be able to deal with an emotional event you need to feel that you somehow understand it. So thanks for your eloquence . And thanks once again to aely for finding that interview and bringing this to light.
I also am missing the tabs cwm mentioned.
Another pic from last night. I think that’s Johnny. Those were probably Johnny’s glsses when you think about it.
http://adam-pictures.com/displayimage.php?pid=29695&fullsize=1
Another Glambert posted this. GROUP HUG:
http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2012/02/11/article-0-11AA3F21000005DC-685_964x674.jpg
Neither eywflyer nor I know what happened to those. They mysteriously disappeared but thankfully all the posts are still there – just not accessible for the moment. Eywflyer tried to restore the menu tabs but WordPress is being a pain and would not do it. He will continue to investigate and get those back up as soon as he can.
Hi, everyone. Finally back from our Finland/Ireland odyssey. Scary landing on Sunday in Miami just in front of a huge storm with winds that tossed our jumbo jet around like popcorn. Spent yesterday just vegging, trying to recover from jetlag and then being suckerpunched with the breakup news. JFC!
Loved all your wise, thoughtful, sad, emotional comments, such a nice tone compared to a few crays on Twitter (but overall, lots and lots of love for Adam and Sauli). And, loved that Adam is so adored that people can tweet lovingly about him all over the world to keep a 10-hour worldwide trend going!!!
I’m sad too, and will miss the gorgeous couple and the wonderful effect their visibility had. I just want Adam to be happy and OK, and he seems to be. For sure, their paths will cross at clubs, parties, events in LA. Anything is possible in the future (or not – whatever).
jlurks, thank you so much! What a wonderful surprise to find Hammersmith Day 3 in our stack of mail! Great memories for me as I stayed for that one, which IMHO had the best sound mix of the 3 concerts, plus that lovely little knee-grope and self-spank by Roger just before Under Pressure. Btw, we have a large turtle population here in Florida – I hope your guy was able to drag himself away and return home.
So, also Katy Perry and John Meyer broke up? Ryan Seacrest and Julianne Hough? Lordy, was it the March 27th full moon?
Hehehe, they are shipping Ryan and Adam on Twitter already.
Here’s an original concept to cheer us up:
Trespassing Synchronized Swimming
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=kfOXx64Jm_M#!
Looks like the tabs are back!
Thanks eywflyer!